Sex isn't love

I think the world has the wrong idea about what love is. I am a firm believer that love is an action, it is how you treat your bf/gf Husband/Wife. It's how you treat his/her's family, and friends. It is your actions, love can also be simple acts of kindness, doing what your partner asks you to do and doing it willingly. That is how I view love. Not just the warm fuzzy feelings you get in your stomach, not the sparks you get when you kiss, and sex. Sex is not love, it is something that God has given man as a wedding gift, but much of the world believes that sex is the same as love. That there is no difference between love and sex. So when a guy tells him gf "If you really loved me you would do...." he really means I am horny and this point I'm willing to say and do whatever it takes to get into your pants. And many girls fall for the line "If you love me..." Yeah you know what you need to do if it ever comes to that you need to say "Alright I'll do that when you get my dad's permission, let me get him on the phone for you" and watch that boy run so fast he will beat the world record. I was listing to a song tonight, and the lyrics were something like "I am looking for love, and I know someone else does to" and while singing she was in a skimpy outfit, and rolling around on a bed in front of a guy. And that is the world view of love, when someone says love now a days they most likely mean sex.
Love is a difficult thing to come by now a days, it is hard to find someone who doesn't get sex and love confused. Sex is made for one person and one person alone and that should be your husband or wife. And once you have sex with a person you are married to that person in God's eyes. Sex is takes soooooooooo lightly now a days, it is like a right of passage in modern times. Like turning 16, or getting your ears priced. And people also believe that it's alright to have sex with more then one person. Well that view is the worst in my mind, why do people take something as....sweet as sex and turn it dirty. It doesn't have to be that way but that's how the world has turned it, it is now considered perverted. But that's only because the world has perverted the word.
Now lust is hard to overcome when you are with a boy/girl who you REALLY like, and that person seems completely perfect. Like they completely fulfil everything you want in a person, and you start to let that person into your heart, your life, and they become the center of your attention. And maybe you start to think you love that person, and I don't mean lusting after that person, I mean real pure love. And you start getting physical with each other, then you get lost in the moment. But that doesn't have to happen, you can really like a person without getting physical, and I mean holding hands and hugging is alright. But anything past that you are getting into dangerous territory.
This blog is just how I veiw love, and how sex is not love.
~Sarah